Tuesday, July 10, 2012

The Voice

...Caitelen's stunning voice.

Our son and his family in Albuquerque, NM have an amazing bunch of friends. Ian is a musician and always manages to surround himself with professional quality musicians. This was the case when “Sydney’s Song” was produced. For those who aren’t aware of this recording, you can read more HERE


Just recently, Caitelen Schneeberger, the singer who gave voice to “Sydney’s Song” released a seven song EP that you can hear or purchase HERE.  Our son did the drums and percussion on the project and worked with other talented musicians at Desert Springs Church in ABQ.

I have been listening to this EP for nearly two weeks and it is amazing. The whole production is restrained and uncluttered, which creates the perfect frame to highlight Caitelen’s stunning voice. My favorite tracks are “Aria’s Song”, written about Caitelen’s daughter; “Take Me Down”, a wonderfully Appalachian flavored tune, and “Beautiful”.  BTW, at the beginning and end of "Aria's Song" you'll hear the actual heartbeat of Aria in utero, reminding us of the wisdom in Psalm 139 that we are all fearfully and wonderfully made.
  
Caitelen and her husband, daughter Aria, and a new child on the way, are moving to California to begin a new ministry. Any proceeds from the sale of “Dark Is Light” go to support that effort.

I don’t think you’ll be able to listen to any of the songs without being moved.

Blessings,
Ken

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Happy Anniversary

...mom and dad

My parents met at the tail end of World War II when dad was stationed at Fort Ord in California. My mother had left east Texas right after high school and gone to visit her aunt and uncle in CA. Typical of the times, their whirlwind romance brought them to the wedding altar within a few months of meeting.


They were both from very small towns--mom from Linden, Texas (pop. less than 2000), dad from Enterprise, Alabama (pop. about 5,000).  Small rural towns, rural families--they said the marriage wouldn't last. War time, quickie courtships--as everyone knew--were destined to fail.


I guess mom and dad didn't get that memo. They were married 53 years when we lost mom in 1998. Today would be their 66th anniversary.


Blessings,
Ken

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

A Little Surprise

...from The Knot/Texas


Most brides (and a few grooms) are aware of The Knot.com, the largest and best known of the wedding planning websites. They also publish a national mag and a few regional ones such as The Knot/Texas. It's a slick paper, almost 500 page issue that comes out quarterly.

Imagine my surprise to get an email from a wedding planner friend advising me that I was in the current issue. The wedding in question was also the subject of an earlier post on this blog (click HERE)

The photographer was Sil Acevedo, a talented guy that I see at many of the high profile weddings and venues. Even though I'm not mentioned in the article and neither was the event planner, it was still nice exposure and reminded me of what a great time I had with this sweet couple last summer.

btw, the headline of the article refers to the couple, not me.

Blessings,
Ken

Thursday, February 9, 2012

More Refrigerator Art

...this one from 6 year old Jada


Regular followers of this blog know I'm a big fan of refrigerator art--if you want to see what's important to people, go look at what's on the outside of the refrigerator.


Last night I met with a couple to work out details of their wedding ceremony next month. This will be a blended family, so I got to meet six year old Jada, a charmer with dark hair and big, dark eyes. I always have paper, crayons and stickers with me for such occasions, so I asked Jada to make something for me.


She asked what she should draw. I told her to draw something that gives her happy thoughts. Above is the result--from left to right: grandfather, Jada, mom, dad, grandmother. Interesting how you can find out what's in a child's mind just by asking the right question.


Blessings,
Ken

Monday, January 2, 2012

TWO EVENTS

...one of them that I wish hadn't happened.



You may have heard about the multiple murder/suicide that occurred in Grapevine at Christmas. A tragedy to be sure, and I grieved for the families. However, it became a lot more personal for me when I learned a few days ago that I had actually met at least one, and possibly more, of the victims.


Last June I had the honor to officiate at a Persian themed wedding at Union Station in downtown Dallas. It was truly an international affair with guests from multiple countries, including Iran. The bride's family, of Iranian heritage, wanted elements of a traditional Persian wedding, so the bride and groom asked me to structure a ceremony accordingly. The ceremony took place at a beautiful stage setting, including the traditional Persian "sofreh", or wedding cloth spread with decorations, sweets, pastries, and other items. Part of the ceremony takes place with the bride and groom sitting behind the platform, but there is traditionally a mirror on the sofreh, so that they may see each other's reflection.



The sofreh and other decorations you see in the picture were designed and arranged by Zohreh Rahmaty, a delightfully creative woman. She was one of the victims; the shooter was her brother-in-law. It's likely I met some of the other victims, but don't know for certain.


My point is, we are not guaranteed tomorrow.  Whatever you need to get said or done, get it said or done sooner rather than later. I imagine that thought has crossed the mind of family and friends who lost loved ones in this senseless tragedy.


Blessings,


Ken

Friday, December 23, 2011

Scarlet Ribbons

...for Sydney's Hair


Can't help but wonder what might have been. This would have been Sydney Grace's fourth Christmas, with all the anticipation and wonder that a little girl would have. Came across the old song "Scarlet Ribbons" a few days ago and it made me think about what I might have bought for my grand daughter.

Whatever gifts there might be, mainly I would want her to sit in granddaddy's lap, and feel warm and loved and safe. My comfort is that she is sitting in the Father's lap, feeling warm and loved and eternally safe.

Blessings,
Ken

Monday, December 19, 2011

Baby Gus

...Baby Jesus

Newest grandson, Augustus, scored his first acting gig this week, playing the baby Jesus in a live Nativity scene in Round Rock. I hear he got rave reviews. Heather was cast as the BVM (Blessed Virgin Mary). Have no idea who the dude is playing Joseph.

The second pic was taken of Heather at a company Christmas party this week. No wonder that my grandsons are photogenic.
Blessings,
Ken

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Happy Birthday, Liam

...hardly seems like seven years

Liam Christopher Byrd, born December 7, 2004.  He was only 4 lbs 12 oz and came into the world early and with some drama.

I remember getting the phone call that an emergency c-section was about to happen. We could hardly draw a good breath for a couple of hours while we waited for news.

This miracle baby, grandson #2 in the flock, is now a strapping young lad in grade school. He has a way of looking at you, with those blue eyes, that makes you feel as if he's looking right into your soul. He also has a sensitive side and a creative, crazy side that comes straight from his father. Liam may also be the best big brother in the world, who watches after his little bro and is usually tolerant of Henry's H-bombness.

Happy Birthday, Liam. You make granddaddy proud.


My Blogger dashboard is being obstinate tonight. You'll just have to scroll down to see the pix.
Blessings,
Ken

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Stardust Celebrations

....my peek inside

Even though I officiate many weddings each year, it isn’t often I get a behind-the-scenes look at what goes on in the weeks and months leading up to the big day. However, I was recently given a peek behind the curtain, courtesy of Marsha Ballard French of Stardust Celebrations in Plano. A link to their website is below.

While I had known and worked with Marsha on specific weddings, my association with her was usually only on wedding day or at AACWP events, so I mainly knew her as one of the premier event planners in Texas. I was aware that she owned a bridal salon and I assumed—incorrectly—that it was a mom-and-pop that sold a few wedding dresses and shoes. Boy, was I ever wrong.

Recently Marsha invited me to come to Stardust Celebrations to meet with a couple getting married next year. Marsha is planning their event for them and very kindly gave me the opportunity to talk with them about having me officiate. Because I got there early, Marsha and some of the staff gave me a tour. I was not prepared for the scope of it all.  Two floors, thousands of square feet of wedding gowns, bridesmaid gowns, flower girl dresses, mother’s gowns, jewelry, shoes, accessories, tuxedos (and other men’s accessories) and more, much more. Mirrored walls are numerous. Staff are everywhere. Just walking in the front door, and being greeted, you get the feeling that this is a place of purpose and they know what they’re doing. In fact, two sentences I found on the Stardust website seem to sum up their mission: “Getting married happens in one day, planning a wedding takes months.”


Marsha and Stardust have been featured in magazines and television shows such as “Girl Meets Gown” on the WE Network (see more about this show and watch video by clicking HERE.) Marsha is a member and past president of the American Association of Certified Wedding Planners. She routinely is involved in training and mentoring the next generation of wedding planners by helping with AACWP classes and allowing interns to shadow her during event planning.

If I were to list all of the awards, magazine covers, magazine articles and other press given to Stardust, it would take a few pages, so I’ll just invite you to click HERE to see what others say about Stardust.
After my tour and visiting with my couple, I now know why each ceremony I’ve ever done where Marsha was involved, was organized and ran so smoothly. She makes it look easy, but I know it’s not.

You can learn more about Stardust Celebrations by clicking HERE, or visit them in person at 6464 W Plano Pkwy Plano,TX 75093 I haven’t yet had the opportunity to visit their other two stores, Lulu’s Bridal (located in uptown Dallas) and A Bridal Closet (located at Shops of Willow Bend, between Macy’s and Neiman’s.) Maybe I’ll get that invitation sometime.

My bride and groom are in good hands. My thanks to Marsha and the Stardust staff for a truly eye opening tour.

Blessings, 
Ken